To blend well with experience is to live with balance and grace — allowing each joy and challenge to shape the spirit without hardening the heart. In Yorùbá wisdom, when the head is cool (tútù orí) and the heart steady (ìtùnú ọkàn), the divine power of Àṣẹ flows freely. Every moment, whether light or shadow, becomes a teacher guiding us toward harmony, growth, and peace.