In Yorùbá wisdom, the highest beauty is ìwà pẹ̀lẹ́ — a cool and gentle character. It aligns the Orí (destiny) with the Orí inú (inner head), bringing balance between thought, emotion, and spirit. Coolness (títù) is strength, not weakness; it steadies the heart, nurtures empathy, and prepares us to receive blessing (ire). Through gentleness, humility, and calmness, we live in harmony with community, ancestors, and destiny.